Agreed on the pretty lawns are overrated part. We don’t hire anything out, and we don’t dump chemicals on lawn having little kids nor the time to deal with it. The thing I really struggle to understand are the people who mow their grass very short, bi**h about weeds while dumping bags of weed and feed on it, then complain about how much work their lawn is. We set everything at 3″ and it’s amazingly more resilient to drought and does a better job at keeping weeds away for substantially less cost. In the heat of summer an evenly mowed 3.5″ of lawn can really take a lot of abuse.
The part I fail to understand is why people scalp it too. Most home owners I know really don’t do any watering, but yet they cut it as short as possible. It holds moisture much better if you cut it longer and keeps a greener look. If you cut it short, and then it doesn’t get any water, it becomes scorched earth in 2 days. And while we’re at it, stop bagging your clippings too. You’re essentially eliminating a free mulch if you bag the clippings.
Some of my neighbors lawns are not coming back after a historic drought last season. They’re still “white” and they should be showing signs of green.